If you are told to talk on any topic what would be your first approach, well now-a-days if we want to look for anything our first approach is Internet.Google it.I was asked to deliver a speech on Confidence and you can predict what was my first approach, I googled it. First I thought of copy pasting or delivering the speech with the exact same words but than I dropped the idea and planned to write my own speech on confidence because if I cannot even deliver an original speech on confidence then I am not a person who should talk on confidence,a person not confident enough to share her notion on confidence cannot do justice to the speech even if the content is worth sharing.
Confidence for me is facing the world as a person who you are.Accepting oneself with all flaws and imperfection and fearlessly placing your opinions.Loving,trusting and believing ourselves are the baby steps to become a confident person.When I was in school my English teacher always used to tell the class that no matter how impossible the task or situation might seem,always remember this four magical words," I CAN DO IT ". Since then I applied these words in my life to rule my world. I talk to myself.Yup!self talking plays an important role in building confidence.It is the best way for the people who are introverts. I agree with Peter T. Mcintyre, according to him"Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong".
From our childhood we are told to inculcate good habits, habits are difficult to change and the funny part is,the word HABIT itself suggests that our habit never changes, now you might be wondering how?? HABIT- if we remove H, A BIT remains, if we remove A, BIT remains and if we remove B, IT remains.So, we should develop good habits and our list of good habits must include the habit of confidence because"Confidence is a habit that can be developed by acting as if you already had the confidence you desire to have".As everybody suggests yes, Confidence is the "Key to Success".
Confidence to express yourself and placing your opinions without thinking what others might think will help you in the long run and to fulfill your dreams.Dreams come true when you have confidence in yourself and not to forget the best friend of confidence, introducing HOPE.Confidence and Hope go hand in hand and those who have this two attributes will succeed in life because this two friends together bring with them enthusiasm, peace, self esteem and prosperity.
Dream big, all it needs is imagination. If you have dreams you strive hard to achieve it and gain knowledge and if at all you don't have enough knowledge, don't step back and blindly believe what Einstein and Bollywood said.Einstein said" Imagination is powerful than knowledge" and remember SRK's dialogue in Om Shanti Om ki"agar kisi cheez ko dil se chaho...to puri kainaat usse tumse milane ki koshish mein lag jaati hai".With this I would like to conclude by saying that have confidence, faith and believe in yourself and dream big because "No failure but low aim is crime". Last but not the least,
SHOOT FOR THE MOON IF NOT MOONYOU WILL AT LEAST LAND WITH THE STARS
P.S. Publishing this blog even when I know that I am not a good writer is what is "CONFIDENCE"
